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Top 10 Couple Content Creators in Kenya – Milly Chebby x Terence Creative

Terence Creative and Milly Chebby are a Kenyan couple who have gained fame in the content creation space through their YouTube channel. Terence Creative, whose real name is Lawrence Macharia, is a comedian, actor,...

Kenya in the race to become a fashion destination in Africa – The JW...

The JW Show led by one Jeffrey Wilson is undoubtedly one of the key stakeholders in the forefront of championing for the growth of the fashion industry in Kenya. From organizing the JW Show...
Goodbye Mara, Fotophreak Magazine

Goodbye Mara, I will Always Love You

With leaves fluttering and the trees swaying in the wind, Mara lay silently on his chest, listening to his heart thump rhythmically against her ear. She had her left hand over his stomach and her...
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Miss Earth Kenya 2024 – Faith Wanyama Takes the Crown on a Night of...

Faith Wanyama from Busia County Crowned Miss Earth Kenya 2024 and the Official Brand Ambassador of Pwani Oil’s Afrisense Beauty Soap. ● Faith won the contest ahead of eight other participants, who made the finals following a...

2017 Award Season Trends; The Grammy’s and Much More

You'll be surprised how most people have very little knowledge about or completely don't understand what the award season is all about! the Grammies, The Golden Globes, S.A.Gs, and the academy awards. The New...

Finding Your Purpose In Modeling, The Inspiration Behind Diana Mwendwa

Popularly known to her close followers as Mama Environment, Diana Mwendwa, a fourth year student of Environmental Science at Kenyatta University, broke the airwaves in the modeling industry after she was crowned the winner...
What comes into your mind when you think about rape in Kenya? The issue of rape has been a topic of discussion for so long, research showing that a girl or a boy, a man or a woman is raped everyday. Some of these rape survivors receive justice for these actions while some of them are left without justice and their abusers go freely. In any case, rape is painful and has tremendous effects on the survivor's life after the action. Everyone dreams of having sexual intercourse willingly and with the person they have romantic feelings with. This is because sex is not just about pleasure, its about attachment and becoming one with the other person. This is described as the best feeling ever. However the worst happens when one is forced to have sex without their consent. People tend to see the physical wounds and damage that rape causes to the survivor such as bleeding, physical wounds due to the harassment and many more. Unfortunately we fail to notice the emotional breakdown and mental suffering these survivor's go through. It is true not all wounds are visible and its the invisible wounds that hurt the most and cause the most damage.Emotionally rape survivors go through post traumatic stress including flashbacks and nightmares about the incident, severe and uncontrollable thoughts, they also go through depression involving sadness, feeling of hopelessness, unexplained crying and anxiety. The worst of all is suicidal thoughts and dissociation. Rape survivor's go through these emotional wounds without anyone noticing or seeing the internal suffering they go through. In addition to emotional suffering, rape survivor's also go through severe mental suffering due to the painful incident. The survivor's mentality about trusting others changes, they tend to see that everyone is an abuser and does not have good intentions about them. They also become angry and blame themselves for the incident. Due to the incident, rape survivor's tend to fear and feel vulnerable. No matter how strong the survivor's may seem, they can't help but feel helpless, in shock, numb, disoriented and the need to withdraw from others. The fact that these people feel this way doesn't mean they are weak but it means they are human and fighting it so they are strong. Different survivor's of rape in Kenya react differently to these wounds or pain. Some suppress them so no one notices and some react negatively to a point they may be called crazy or insane. They may develop a negative outlook about life and feel unworthy of a better life. This may lead to them trying using drugs and alcohol in a way to cope up with these overwhelming feelings. Some are seen to withdraw from others while others prefer sleeping and overworking to avoid feeling lonely. In a nutshell, survivors of rape in Kenya and globally face painful invisible wounds, and healing an invisible wound is the hardest. It requires love, patience, closure, understanding and the precious gift of time from the people that surround the survivor's for them to be whole again. Lastly to the survivor's, recovery will probably feel like you are getting worse, you will be anxious and fearful but its okay you are strong. You will think what will happen if I let go? How do I overcome? How do I become normal again? You should know its gets worse before it gets better and there is no disgrace in being a survivor of sexual violence. The rape tore you but it did not end you and you should show that surviving is beautiful.

The Invisible Wounds of Rape Survivors – End Rape in Kenya Campaign

What comes into your mind when you think about rape in Kenya? The issue of rape has been a topic of discussion for so long, research showing that a girl or a boy, a...

Meet the Alpha Female

It's the third week running and still going strong for the Fotophreak Model of the week segment. This week we are more than proud to feature one of the most iconic models in the...
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My First Arrest; Unforgettable

No one ever forgets the first time they fall on the wrong side of the government's long arms. No one. Not even your village's madman. First experiences are unforgettable; one because they are life...

Meet the breathtaking Kendi Edina H2H with Fotophreak Model of The Week 2 Alex...

The Fotophreak Model of the week segment continues to make headlines in Nairobi, NaxVegas and in several other fashion pods and forums across the country. Thanks to you for always remembering to visit this...