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The African Fashion Fusion 2018

Fashion Lanes Drawn at the Third Edition of the African Fashion Fusion

The Kenyan fashion industry was smiling yet again on the 4th of August as the organizers of the African Fashion Fusion put together another epic show for the third time in a row. Concept...
Mr and Miss Untamed Kenya 2018

Mr and Miss Untamed Kenya 2018; Oscar Muiruri and Rose Kathina Scoop Gold

The Mr and Miss Untamed Kenya pageant was one of the most hyped pageants of 2018, and finally, the event went down at Park Place along Magadi Road on the 16th of February, in...

Viola Davis, The Oscars – Luxury Bags Designer Nthenya Mwendwa on Becoming a Global...

Nthenya Mwendwa, a 37-year-old Kenyan designer, has been a lady on a mission seeking to promote her business featuring art designs on bags and fashion accessories inspired by her Kenyan background. She is the...

Flair, Flavour and Fine Aura At The Best Produced Fashion Show In Kenya –...

The face of Fashion and Design in Kenya is fast changing. And every other event brings new tidings, new innovation and whole different way of doing things. This past weekend witnessed probably one of...
What comes into your mind when you think about rape in Kenya? The issue of rape has been a topic of discussion for so long, research showing that a girl or a boy, a man or a woman is raped everyday. Some of these rape survivors receive justice for these actions while some of them are left without justice and their abusers go freely. In any case, rape is painful and has tremendous effects on the survivor's life after the action. Everyone dreams of having sexual intercourse willingly and with the person they have romantic feelings with. This is because sex is not just about pleasure, its about attachment and becoming one with the other person. This is described as the best feeling ever. However the worst happens when one is forced to have sex without their consent. People tend to see the physical wounds and damage that rape causes to the survivor such as bleeding, physical wounds due to the harassment and many more. Unfortunately we fail to notice the emotional breakdown and mental suffering these survivor's go through. It is true not all wounds are visible and its the invisible wounds that hurt the most and cause the most damage.Emotionally rape survivors go through post traumatic stress including flashbacks and nightmares about the incident, severe and uncontrollable thoughts, they also go through depression involving sadness, feeling of hopelessness, unexplained crying and anxiety. The worst of all is suicidal thoughts and dissociation. Rape survivor's go through these emotional wounds without anyone noticing or seeing the internal suffering they go through. In addition to emotional suffering, rape survivor's also go through severe mental suffering due to the painful incident. The survivor's mentality about trusting others changes, they tend to see that everyone is an abuser and does not have good intentions about them. They also become angry and blame themselves for the incident. Due to the incident, rape survivor's tend to fear and feel vulnerable. No matter how strong the survivor's may seem, they can't help but feel helpless, in shock, numb, disoriented and the need to withdraw from others. The fact that these people feel this way doesn't mean they are weak but it means they are human and fighting it so they are strong. Different survivor's of rape in Kenya react differently to these wounds or pain. Some suppress them so no one notices and some react negatively to a point they may be called crazy or insane. They may develop a negative outlook about life and feel unworthy of a better life. This may lead to them trying using drugs and alcohol in a way to cope up with these overwhelming feelings. Some are seen to withdraw from others while others prefer sleeping and overworking to avoid feeling lonely. In a nutshell, survivors of rape in Kenya and globally face painful invisible wounds, and healing an invisible wound is the hardest. It requires love, patience, closure, understanding and the precious gift of time from the people that surround the survivor's for them to be whole again. Lastly to the survivor's, recovery will probably feel like you are getting worse, you will be anxious and fearful but its okay you are strong. You will think what will happen if I let go? How do I overcome? How do I become normal again? You should know its gets worse before it gets better and there is no disgrace in being a survivor of sexual violence. The rape tore you but it did not end you and you should show that surviving is beautiful.

The Invisible Wounds of Rape Survivors – End Rape in Kenya Campaign

What comes into your mind when you think about rape in Kenya? The issue of rape has been a topic of discussion for so long, research showing that a girl or a boy, a...
Sarah Ogake of Baraton University was crowned the new Face of Universities Eldoret 2018

Glitz, Glamour and Sauce at the Miss Face of Universities Eldoret 2018

It’s every franchise holder's vision to make beauty peagentry a celebration of true kenyan beauty in a positive and respectable way. The Miss Face of Universities Eldoret 2018 that was held recently at club...
Fotophreak Magazine ultimate wolf

The Ultimate Alpha

I am a ferocious being, A lupine alpha to be precise, My territory always untouched, Or a beast shall be set free. I am no blood thirsty creature, Nor what people assume of my existence, My essence is to protect, A...

Future looks bright for Kenyan Tourism as African Resort International Launches Virtual Reality Fractional...

The Kenyan tourism industry is yet again soaring with good news after the African Resort International, just launched a Virtual Reality Fractional Membership Tour on 3rd June 2019. African Resort International is a prestigious...
Dear Best Friend

Dear Best Friend

People say love comes and goes... I say let the truth be known... We have several types of love; for our children, parents, and friends, but there is a gentle love that I call my best friend. I've been fortunate enough to...
JW Show Ajiry contract

The JW Show Enters New Agreement for Youth Empowerment in Kenya | Ajiry

Celebrated fashion brand the JW Show, has entered into yet another agreement that will see the company spearhead awareness and take a leading role, in matters of youth empowerment in Kenya. Tribus-TSG, a subsidiary company...